On the road to child-rearing, there are many, especially the first time to raise a baby, the mother may be a child, the experience may be almost zero, under such premise, the mistakes on the parenting road are indispensable. A few days ago, I saw that Ma Yizhen shared his regretful parenting on Weibo. I believe that the mothers have a lot of feelings after reading them. After all, we all have faults.
When Ma Yizhen was a year old when her daughter loved horses, she had problems. In order to let her daughter sleep, Ma Yizhen trained her child in crying immunity. In less than two days, the child could sleep and feel good. Effective, but when the child is one and a half years old, the problem arises. After falling asleep, he suddenly woke up and cried and hugged. This was repeated. At that time, as long as he ignored the child, he cried and fell asleep. Later, Mai Yi was stubbornly expecting her daughter to sleep and paralyzed. I neglect my daughter's helplessness, and even naively think that when a child grows up, he will forget these pains. During that time, the children and their families were tortured. Finally, Ma Yizhen put her daughter's crib on her bed at the suggestion of her mother. When the child cried at night, she reached out and patted her. Slowly everyone It’s very hard to sleep.
What is crying immunity?
The crying immune method was very popular a few years ago. The so-called crying immunity method, in terms of popular point of view, is crying, not holding, not crying, and letting the child go to cry. This method was once popular when training children to sleep, because it was effective in the short term, and the child really fell asleep after crying.
However, after practice, many people have found that this kind of training will bring a lot of sequelae to the children. For example, like Ma Yizhen’s daughter, she has no sense of security. She always wakes up after falling asleep, eager to embrace her parents. Children who are not responding will only become more and more fearful.
This kind of crying immunity method was once popular in the United States, but children who were trained to grow up like this sometimes have small sleep disorders, serious personality disorder and even schizophrenia. Now for parents, crying immunity is a corrective method of training children as a machine, the most ruthless.
trust yourself
In fact, every parent has a certain understanding of their children. When a child is hungry, when he is going to be hugged, or when he wants to sleep, parents have their own instincts. Some treasure moms don't believe in themselves, and they don't have experience with parenting. They are often experienced in listening to experts and hearsay. The situation of each child is different, so my instincts, their understanding of the child is still very important, Jun Jun wants to say is to believe in yourself. When learning parenting knowledge, comprehensively understand, practice, and change in time to avoid letting children suffer sin, leaving behind regrets.
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